I have been looking after my mum who has alzhiemers for the last 6 years sadly my younger and only brother died of covid 3 and a half years ago and mum started to decline more then. Mum is still at home and happy there but I am finding it so difficult looking after her I just feel exhausted , I visit 3 times a day to give her meds and give her food as she is not safe to use oven etc do cleaning garden etc, mum loves going out so I take her out 3 or 4 times a week. She is slowly getting worse in no longer putting clean clothes on unless I tell her to. I have just got a cleaner and have carers on Friday and Saturday to give me a break. I am 69 and this is awful to say but I want time to spend with my husband , I feel trapped, please help any advice would be greatly appreciated