Hello Helen
Just visited TP for a quick look before bed with no intention of posting, but I felt I just had to send you a big hug after your fraught day. You share your good times with us & are brave enough to share the bad too - thank you for that.
It sounds like you just felt really out of control today - unable to control Alan's illness, unable to control your own emotions, unable to achieve what you thought you could & would achieve. That is a scary place to be, but you are not alone (even though Alan cannot be with you in your scary place anymore).
Also reading Tina's post really made me think about how it must be for those of you who have a partner suffering from dementia. I found it very moving, as someone who has only experienced it as a child of an elderly parent with dementia.
Just visited TP for a quick look before bed with no intention of posting, but I felt I just had to send you a big hug after your fraught day. You share your good times with us & are brave enough to share the bad too - thank you for that.
It sounds like you just felt really out of control today - unable to control Alan's illness, unable to control your own emotions, unable to achieve what you thought you could & would achieve. That is a scary place to be, but you are not alone (even though Alan cannot be with you in your scary place anymore).
Also reading Tina's post really made me think about how it must be for those of you who have a partner suffering from dementia. I found it very moving, as someone who has only experienced it as a child of an elderly parent with dementia.