Hi Helen You have had several replies mostly form other carers as a person with frontal-lobe-dementia myself I feel for Alan unfortunately our brain function is impaired personally I could build you a house but I couldn’t tell verbally, yet I can’t change my TV from digital box to video I go to get something say in the kitchen within seconds I can’t remember put eggs on to boil and let the pan boil I could go on all these thing gets me frustrated so much so that I could either laugh or start shouting and swearing this annoys my wife who then tells me to stop shouting and swearing this fuels my frustration / anger and I get louder than ever my worst fear is that one of these day it might turn to violence maybe best to let Alan do his own thing at his own pace “ps” it take ages to write this
cheers Tony
cheers Tony