My mum has been diagnosed with vascular dementia, she has had a terrible year, she had a knee replacement in May 2023. She also has addisons disease which she has to take hydrocortisone to keep her alive. She had the knee replacement on the Tuesday and by Friday she suffered 6 seizures due to lack of sodium. She had to be put into an induced coma for a week and it was touch and go as to whether she would pull through. She was a little forgetful before the seizures and my grandma (mum’s mum) died of dementia a long time ago. After the seizures she wasn’t the same person at all, I was getting married in the July and luckily for me she was able to attend. She was there but she wasn’t she kept what looked like daydreaming. I can see it in my photos now. A year later numerous falls, a broken hip which led to one leg being shorter than the other she has been fully diagnosed with vascular dementia. I live an hour away from my parents and I try to go at least once per week in between work, being a mum and wife and also my husbands parents live with us and they are very elderly and have needs. My dad is struggling he is now getting some support thank goodness. I’ve watched this before with my grandma but with my mum it is just so hard not to have her, she isn’t who was my mum. A few months ago we saw glimmers of my “real” mum but now they have gone. I’ve tried to explain to my daughter and I’ve also tried not to let her go to her nannas as I think it would upset her too much but she is asking to go see nanna and pops. I cannot explain to my daughter properly about how her nanna is. We are all in so much heartache I just thought maybe I just needed a little support. Many thanks ❤️