Hello
@BerniceL and welcome to the forum
This is a very friendly site. It has been a life saver to me.
Feel free to join in the conversations, but remember that not everything that you read about will happen to you/your husband.
Do start a new thread if you want to ask specific questions (nothing is off limits) or talk about your own situation. Many people have long running threads to record what is happening and to chat to other members.
See you around
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