Hi all
My 89 year old stepfather has dementia and we lost my 83 year old mum recently, so he's on his own for the first time in >30 years. We have private carers from 8-1 and for an hour at night.
The issue is that he's decided he wants to go on holiday on his own and has apparently today talked to a company, (from a newspaper advert), provisionally booked a cruise and is 'transferring money tomorrow via the bank'.
He is great in many ways, but won't cope with getting to Eurostar from Yorkshire or managing himself on the cruise. He has told his carer that he doesn't want any of us to come....
We are going to get hold of the company tomorrow and see if we can cancel it... Plus talk to the bank (his son has power of attorney). But he can come across OK at times, so I don't know how successful this will be.
Does anyone have any advice to manage this tricky situation?
Previously he had insight to understand he wasn't able to do this, but that has changed over the past 6 months as the dementia has progressed.
Thanks
My 89 year old stepfather has dementia and we lost my 83 year old mum recently, so he's on his own for the first time in >30 years. We have private carers from 8-1 and for an hour at night.
The issue is that he's decided he wants to go on holiday on his own and has apparently today talked to a company, (from a newspaper advert), provisionally booked a cruise and is 'transferring money tomorrow via the bank'.
He is great in many ways, but won't cope with getting to Eurostar from Yorkshire or managing himself on the cruise. He has told his carer that he doesn't want any of us to come....
We are going to get hold of the company tomorrow and see if we can cancel it... Plus talk to the bank (his son has power of attorney). But he can come across OK at times, so I don't know how successful this will be.
Does anyone have any advice to manage this tricky situation?
Previously he had insight to understand he wasn't able to do this, but that has changed over the past 6 months as the dementia has progressed.
Thanks