Hello, everyone on TP, I haven't been on here for a while. I look after my partner Richard who has dementia and it is getting a lot harder to cope. Anyway I read often and get guidance that way, my favourite go to place for help, from those that really know.
Today I would like some financial advice about my Mum's care. I will outline the facts :-
Mum has been in a nursing care home for the past 6 weeks. She is self funding as she has small savings and a modest property. She is 90 and has Alzheimers diagnosed (4 years). Her symptoms are rapidly increasing, she has lost her speech and cannot communicate, double incontinence, and has to be fed (she shows no interest in food but will take it sometimes if we/carers feed her)She sometimes coughs when feeding which I assume to be dysphagia or start of. Those are her main issues, she is mobile (slow and with support) and is on low medication. She has an anneurism which is monitored.
The nursing home seems ok and I think Mum has settled, it is £1200 per week. It uses the 'butterfly' system, where they have a high ratio of carers, and I can see that it is generally well managed (I have the usual gripes about lost teeth, clothes, giving her meat when she can't chew without her teeth.... I could go on) -
I have asked the home to start the process for CHC (I thought that it would be automatic being a nursing home), and we have a meeting tomorrow with the manager in preparation for the checklist next week. I have read a lot about this and feel that it will just be an exercise with box ticking . The Manager has verbally said that she doesn't think Mum will get it - I feel that she has already made up her mind, I had hoped she would be on our side to help.
This is her response, to an email I sent to her following her comment that it isn't a checklist anymore, but a review, asking for clarity :-
"Up until recently care homes were allowed to submit a Continuing Healthcare Checklist, which would trigger a review by a nurse assessor. We now request a review for a person who is self- funding, on this request we briefly describe an individual’s care needs, the person who comes to do the review will complete the checklist at the time of the review.
I don’t think that your Mum will meet the criteria to receive full continuing care funding but will hopefully meet the criteria for funded nursing care.
Hope this makes things a little clearer, if not we can discuss it further when you come in"
I am confused - what has self funding got to do with CHC? How can she make up her mind about Mum not needing CHC? I am spending all of my spare time on this at the moment, as you can appreciate I don't have much, and having read of other peoples battles, i am not sure I have the energy but will do my best.
Today I would like some financial advice about my Mum's care. I will outline the facts :-
Mum has been in a nursing care home for the past 6 weeks. She is self funding as she has small savings and a modest property. She is 90 and has Alzheimers diagnosed (4 years). Her symptoms are rapidly increasing, she has lost her speech and cannot communicate, double incontinence, and has to be fed (she shows no interest in food but will take it sometimes if we/carers feed her)She sometimes coughs when feeding which I assume to be dysphagia or start of. Those are her main issues, she is mobile (slow and with support) and is on low medication. She has an anneurism which is monitored.
The nursing home seems ok and I think Mum has settled, it is £1200 per week. It uses the 'butterfly' system, where they have a high ratio of carers, and I can see that it is generally well managed (I have the usual gripes about lost teeth, clothes, giving her meat when she can't chew without her teeth.... I could go on) -
I have asked the home to start the process for CHC (I thought that it would be automatic being a nursing home), and we have a meeting tomorrow with the manager in preparation for the checklist next week. I have read a lot about this and feel that it will just be an exercise with box ticking . The Manager has verbally said that she doesn't think Mum will get it - I feel that she has already made up her mind, I had hoped she would be on our side to help.
This is her response, to an email I sent to her following her comment that it isn't a checklist anymore, but a review, asking for clarity :-
"Up until recently care homes were allowed to submit a Continuing Healthcare Checklist, which would trigger a review by a nurse assessor. We now request a review for a person who is self- funding, on this request we briefly describe an individual’s care needs, the person who comes to do the review will complete the checklist at the time of the review.
I don’t think that your Mum will meet the criteria to receive full continuing care funding but will hopefully meet the criteria for funded nursing care.
Hope this makes things a little clearer, if not we can discuss it further when you come in"
I am confused - what has self funding got to do with CHC? How can she make up her mind about Mum not needing CHC? I am spending all of my spare time on this at the moment, as you can appreciate I don't have much, and having read of other peoples battles, i am not sure I have the energy but will do my best.