My sister and I had a meeting with the nursing home manager, she is nice enough but her first words were i don't know what we can really talk about ......One and a half hours later she changed her mind and was proposing definite 2 x A's for Mum in cognitive and communication domains, B's and a few C's which was surprising as I thought Mum was more borderline, but having read Mum's electronic notes (they weren't up to date, according to the manager) Mum is displaying high anxiety and refusing to cooperate, which makes sense as the care home where she had respite, said they could not take her on full time for this reason. It remains to be seen whether the assessor agrees with the manager. As Mum's incomplete notes showed Mum has more problems than we actually see on visiting her, I requested the notes be updated before the checklist meeting this following week, in case we are unaware of anything else. The manager clearly didn't know about Mum's problems (as she had not read her notes). Is it possible to request a copy of Mum's notes we both have POA Health and Welfare.