Hi Everyone - I am a new member living in the US in New York State. My mother is in between mild and moderate Alzheimer's. She has good days of lucidity and then others that are not so much. Unfortunately, the doctors made us take away her ability to drive and live alone all in one day. She moved in with my family and has been with us for the last six months. Her decline has been steady. She forgets to medicate herself and then sometimes double medicates. We are interested in a lockable pill dispenser, so looking for suggestions on that, but what we really need help with is how to explain to others that Alzheimer's in not an instant switch? The worst part is that friends that visit with her see her for short periods and think that me and my siblings are making it up and that she is capable of wintering in her Florida home, alone. They text her and call her and fuel her anxiety, depression, and aggression. My Mom loss all control over her life in one day and that tears her apart. There are days when she forgets that she has this disease and cannot understand why we are doing this to her. Then she snaps back and comprehends the situation, but mere hours later we relive it all over again. How do we explain that eventhough she has moments of lucidity, that the decline is real and their communications are making Mom's, my siblings, and my lives more difficult on an already difficult journey? I appreciate any and all support and guidance that you may have to offer and thank you all in advance.