Hi Everyone
Well, today, we took dad's grandchildren into the CH to see him for the first time in 3 weeks. All went well, dad was really happy to see us all and our family nearly filled the "fish lounge" where dad has decided to sit. There was a lady in there who is 102 and my daughter was happy to go and talk to her. I think it made this lady's day. Dad had been saying last night that he wanted to go home. and did not understand why he was there. He also did the night time thing again of switching off all the lights. This time they were expecting him so there were no major problems.
Am I strange? I have now been in the CH 4 times and I am beginning to feel at home. They are many residents who want to talk to me, stroke my face, touch my hair and I don't have a problem with any of it. If anything, each time I visit I feel even more comfortable. I will talk, hold hands and do anything which I feel is needed. As I see it, all these people are some ones mother/father/partner and they are no different to my own lovely dad. I am just feeling that I am getting more and more drawn into the CH. I do hope that if dad sees me being nice to everyone else, then he may be more willing to do the same. One of the staff said to me today that it was lovely that I visited so regularly, as some people do not get any visitors at all. I think dad has made a new friend because he started to eat some chocolates which belonged to another lady. She said to me that dad was more than welcome to them as she had eaten enough. This is the lady who is at dad's meal table.
Love Burfordthecat x x
Well, today, we took dad's grandchildren into the CH to see him for the first time in 3 weeks. All went well, dad was really happy to see us all and our family nearly filled the "fish lounge" where dad has decided to sit. There was a lady in there who is 102 and my daughter was happy to go and talk to her. I think it made this lady's day. Dad had been saying last night that he wanted to go home. and did not understand why he was there. He also did the night time thing again of switching off all the lights. This time they were expecting him so there were no major problems.
Am I strange? I have now been in the CH 4 times and I am beginning to feel at home. They are many residents who want to talk to me, stroke my face, touch my hair and I don't have a problem with any of it. If anything, each time I visit I feel even more comfortable. I will talk, hold hands and do anything which I feel is needed. As I see it, all these people are some ones mother/father/partner and they are no different to my own lovely dad. I am just feeling that I am getting more and more drawn into the CH. I do hope that if dad sees me being nice to everyone else, then he may be more willing to do the same. One of the staff said to me today that it was lovely that I visited so regularly, as some people do not get any visitors at all. I think dad has made a new friend because he started to eat some chocolates which belonged to another lady. She said to me that dad was more than welcome to them as she had eaten enough. This is the lady who is at dad's meal table.
Love Burfordthecat x x