My parents both have Alzheimer's and they're in their late 80's. More recently dad has become unpredictable and agitated. Before we were able to get him on any medication to help he had pushed mum. The end result was that we decided to get a live-in carer which we're paying for (£1650 a week). After a false start we got an excellent carer. He's currently on break and his replacement is good but not quite as capable. I have two areas of concern. The 1st is that they prepare ready meals but don't seem prepared to cook from scratch. I was expecting some preparing good honest food from raw ingredients rather than heating up a ready meal. Perhaps 50/50. I do this regularly and freeze some to ensure my parents get better food but had expected them to. The other issue is that they tend to leave my parents alone until they need help. There's no stimulation or engagement other than ensuring they're ok, fed, warm and comfy.
Am I expect or asking for too much?
Thank you for your thoughts and advice.
Am I expect or asking for too much?
Thank you for your thoughts and advice.