My mother has vascular dementia and due to her keep falling and ending in hospital she has now gone into a home .im pleased as I know she is safe and cared for ,but the devastation I feel to my mental health as I c my mum and friend disappear ,I feel scared to stop being busy with work ,grandchildren etc scared to stop and b quiet even for a moment as I feel a sense of panick so keep going ,when I visit mums always falling asleep so I can’t seem to get any interest from her is this normal ,so scared she’s going to disappear from me and I won’t get her back ,she was always so involved and interested in my life this has gone just blankness .what a sad disease