hello everyone im returning to this forum. i was a regular 3/4years ago. then my brotherinlaw went into a nursing home because my sister was taken ill with cancer an died. im my BIL only regular visitor his children rarely visit an my sister was his second wife (ist died) an children were never very happy about that. he made my hubby POA an excecutor and his children were not happy with that either ,thinking we were in it for his money. far from it we dont get a penny we just promised we would look out for him. why im back is his now end stage can only eat nothing much else gives him pleasure tho i do get response when i play him reggae an hold his hands an dance, my BIL is 71 next week hes had this since he was around 60. i suppose i feel i just want a bit of contact with others again. i feel im a bit alone in this as no one else really goes .juniepoonie