Hi I'd like to introduce myself. I come from a family with other brother and sisters. Both parents are still alive and live very close to me. I'm single and live with my adult daughter. I'm very close to my parents. My dad was diagnosed with vascular dementia and I think alzheimers about 2 years ago. My way of dealing with it was to try and believe it wasn't real and wasn't happening to us as my dad was such a strong man. He's nearly 80 and up until a couple of years ago really active and fit for his age. I didn't want to dwell on the future and sort of thought I'd deal with things as they happened.
Dad slowly started to get a bit more forgetful over time and just doing silly things like putting things away in daft places or filling up the tea/coffee cadies with water when making a cuppa! He also got a bit restless at night but it wasn't really a problem as he would get up and just come downstairs and keep busy.
This all changed just before Christmas when he fell and fractured his neck. He was in hospital for nearly 2 weeks and hated it. It was a horrible time. The hospital were useless and just kept moving him from place to place. We finally got him home about 2 weeks ago but he seems to have changed drastically and acting so differently. We're hoping it's the change and the trauma he went through. He's really confused and forgetting who people are etc. I wondered if anyone else had any experience of dementia progressing this rapidly. Really need to talk to someone as feel so lost :-(
Dad slowly started to get a bit more forgetful over time and just doing silly things like putting things away in daft places or filling up the tea/coffee cadies with water when making a cuppa! He also got a bit restless at night but it wasn't really a problem as he would get up and just come downstairs and keep busy.
This all changed just before Christmas when he fell and fractured his neck. He was in hospital for nearly 2 weeks and hated it. It was a horrible time. The hospital were useless and just kept moving him from place to place. We finally got him home about 2 weeks ago but he seems to have changed drastically and acting so differently. We're hoping it's the change and the trauma he went through. He's really confused and forgetting who people are etc. I wondered if anyone else had any experience of dementia progressing this rapidly. Really need to talk to someone as feel so lost :-(