My mum passed away in her sleep a month ago. My sister in Australia & myself in Italy weren't there. Elaine at the nursing home phoned me and I just knew straightaway what she was going to say.. I shouted I don't want to know!!! Elaine said she would have warned us so we could have been there, but it was broncopneumonia so very quick.
What do you do when your mother dies... you're ripped apart, very feelings, thoughts and actions.
My sister wrote a special poem that was read out and a friend wrote a farewell saying heaven just got better. She was so special.. my schoolgirl friend said she was the perfect mother. We knew, oh yes we knew that.
I've got memories to last until we meet again and lovely reminders of her of photos of her life.
I feel that I've been grieving for my mother a long time since she got Alzheimers & seeing her deteriorate is heart breaking.
It's only now that I can write words down & now I'm crying at the other messages posted. You all are so caring and loving that I wanted to thank you for helping me by reading what others have gone through and their pain. We all should help each other and this is what this site has shown me.
A very big thank you & I wish you all the love that you deserve.
Regards,
Sabato
What do you do when your mother dies... you're ripped apart, very feelings, thoughts and actions.
My sister wrote a special poem that was read out and a friend wrote a farewell saying heaven just got better. She was so special.. my schoolgirl friend said she was the perfect mother. We knew, oh yes we knew that.
I've got memories to last until we meet again and lovely reminders of her of photos of her life.
I feel that I've been grieving for my mother a long time since she got Alzheimers & seeing her deteriorate is heart breaking.
It's only now that I can write words down & now I'm crying at the other messages posted. You all are so caring and loving that I wanted to thank you for helping me by reading what others have gone through and their pain. We all should help each other and this is what this site has shown me.
A very big thank you & I wish you all the love that you deserve.
Regards,
Sabato