After much agonising about my husband being in assessment/respite I have brought him home before he deteriorates anymore. It was just not right for him. Also as there is no much trauma in my life at the moment regarding his care I've decided not to start work, can't concentrate on another disruption at the moment. Of course all the frustrations of having him at home having him have returned and I feel so depressed and low and just don't know where to go next. We are trying someone else for respite but if they are unable to control his medication poetically for Parkinson's he comes back worse than when he went and I have the fallout to deal with and this doesn't help the problem of hallucinations centred around me.