Hello I need some urgent advice please. My elderly father has been looking after my mother for the last year with carers twice a day & with help from me when I can (I don’t live close to them). He was taken to hospital 2 weeks ago & she was placed in emergency respite for a week by a social worker but is now back home. He realises he can no longer manage & we are looking at care homes for her, but want to ensure we get the right one & close to home so he can visit daily. However social worker, district nurse & OT’s are hassling us to place her in care home immediately. They came round New Years Eve & stayed for 3 hours trying to brow beat us into admission on 2 Jan to a very expensive home miles away which we hadn’t seen. Mum will be a self funder but three of them are coming back again tomorrow & we are concerned they will force us to put her in care home miles away tomorrow - which is terrifying her. Can they force us into immediate move? We have stated we are in process of sorting it but they just keep bullying us and trying to force an instant move.