Hi, my husband was taken into hospital where he stayed for four weeks then came home for another four weeks when I found I just couldn’t cope any more. We had two carers coming in four times a day and I still couldn’t cope. I’d looked after him for thirty years, he is 76 and I am 74. He is confused and has several co morbidities, muscular dystrophy, Bi-polar, Atrial fibrillation, Parkinson’s, incontinent both ways, Bowel polyps, skin cancer, bladder cancer and now has lost the use of his legs so he’s in a wheelchair. He thinks he can walk so tries to at times and inevitably falls over. I keep thinking I’ll be okay if I have him home again but I know I can’t, but he keeps asking, “ when will I be coming home”, although he doesn’t know where home is. I am almost grieving and full of guilt. Have I done the right thing by moving him to a nursing home?