Goodbye Mum you are at peace now

Discussion in 'After dementia — dealing with loss' started by rubyrosie, Jul 5, 2015.

  1. rubyrosie

    rubyrosie Registered User

    Mar 28, 2014
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    Firstly this sit has been amazing when I have struggled with my mums illness ..thank you My mum passed away on the hottest day ever....she never did like the heat ....last Wednesday...The cause was bronchial pneumonia and it was very sudden ..I had a call from the nursing home at 10 am and by 245 pm she slipped away with my sister and I holding her hands ....I feel happy that she is finally free of this horrible disease but numb that my mum is gone ....you were much loved Mum , and now you are with dad ...rest in peace xxxx goodnight and God bless..xx
     
  2. theunknown

    theunknown Registered User

    Apr 17, 2015
    321
    It was so hot last Wednesday and care homes (like hospitals) do seem to keep the heat up. I know it's not really relevant, but you think of lots of little things that can be classed as positive. It does sound like your mum had a peaceful death, so I hope that helps you in the future x
     
  3. Saffie

    Saffie Registered User

    Mar 26, 2011
    22,489
    Female
    Near Southampton
    I'm sorry that you have lost your Mum but I am glad that you are able to feel relief that she is now free of her suffering. x
     
  4. LYN T

    LYN T Registered User

    Aug 30, 2012
    6,967
    Brixham Devon
    Keep thinking your Mum is free from all confusion and pain-it may help a little bit in the times ahead. Not only free but with your Dad.

    Please accept my condolences

    Love

    Lyn T XX
     
  5. jan.s

    jan.s Registered User

    Sep 20, 2011
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    #5 jan.s, Jul 5, 2015
    Last edited: Jul 5, 2015
    I am sorry to hear that you've lost your Mum, but be sure in the knowledge that her confusion has ended.


    Thinking of you at this sad time. x
     
  6. Pickles53

    Pickles53 Registered User

    Feb 25, 2014
    2,482
    Radcliffe on Trent
    Sending you my deepest sympathy and wishing you comfort and peace. Xx
     
  7. rubyrosie

    rubyrosie Registered User

    Mar 28, 2014
    24
    Thank you

    Thank you to all the wonderful kind people out there who understand what it is like to experience the good and less good times "....and thank you for all your kind thought s and wishes ....I hope that maybe I can offer some comfort to someone in the future to return the support ....

    Just remember do something every day that makes you smile xxx ruby x
     
  8. tryingmybest

    tryingmybest Registered User

    May 22, 2015
    612
    Female
    Oh my dear. So feel for you but glad you and your sister were with mum at the end. You must be full of mixed emotions and have many bitter sweet memories. Your mum is in a better place now and as she once was, free from this awful disease. God bless you and your family. Hugs. Xx
     
  9. J2e

    J2e Registered User

    Apr 24, 2015
    27
    Brighton
    As others have said I'm glad you were with her, and that it sounds like a quick and peaceful passing.

    Be kind to yourself
    Jx
     
  10. Izzy

    Izzy Volunteer Moderator

    Aug 31, 2003
    58,718
    Female
    Dundee
    I'm sorry to read your news. Sending my condolences.
     
  11. Maldives13

    Maldives13 Registered User

    Feb 4, 2014
    164
    I'm so sorry to hear your sad news - must be a difficult time for you. I'm glad you were with her at the end - that must have been a comfort to her and I hope to you. Take care x
     
  12. CollegeGirl

    CollegeGirl Registered User

    Jan 19, 2011
    9,535
    North East England
    I'm so sorry, rubyrosie, please accept my condolences. Wishing you peace and strength x
     
  13. Gigglemore

    Gigglemore Registered User

    Oct 18, 2013
    526
    British Isles
    So sorry for your loss Rubyrosie, hope you and your sister are able to support each other at this sad time.
     

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