Good night, sweetheart, sleep tight

Discussion in 'After dementia — dealing with loss' started by Spamar, Jul 27, 2015.

  1. stanleypj

    stanleypj Registered User

    Dec 8, 2011
    North West
    Very sorry for your loss Spamar. I wish you peace and strength in the coming days.
  2. jeany123

    jeany123 Registered User

    Mar 24, 2012
    I am sorry to hear this Spamar, please accept my sympathy,
  3. nannylondon

    nannylondon Registered User

    Apr 7, 2014
    My deepest condolences to you and your family xx
  4. Grace L

    Grace L Registered User

    Jun 14, 2014
    NW UK
    I am sorry for your loss.
    Take Care xxxxxxx
  5. starryuk

    starryuk Registered User

    Nov 8, 2012
    Oh Spamar, I am sorry to hear the news of your OH. So sorry.
  6. Saffie

    Saffie Registered User

    Mar 26, 2011
    Near Southampton
    O Spamar, I am so very, very sorry.
    It is good to know that your husband's passing was peaceful but it is so dreadfully sad.
    Even if he was very unwell, I know it must still be a terrible shock.
    A lot of adjustment for you in the days ahead and I send you all my sympathy and understanding. love xxx
  7. Chrismitch

    Chrismitch Registered User

    Jun 23, 2011
    So sorry to hear the sad news Spamar. My thoughts are with you.
  8. ellejay

    ellejay Registered User

    Jan 28, 2011
    I'm so sorry , Spamar, thinking of you all x

    Lin x
  9. chelsea girl

    chelsea girl Registered User

    Jan 25, 2015
    Hugs for you spamar xx
  10. bemused1

    bemused1 Registered User

    Mar 4, 2012
    Please accept my condolences. I am glad his departing was peaceful.
  11. Soobee

    Soobee Registered User

    Aug 22, 2009
    Sending my condolences. x
  12. mackie

    mackie Registered User

    Feb 9, 2015
    Sorry to hear of your sad loss, thinking of you x
  13. Roses40

    Roses40 Registered User

    Jan 25, 2015
    You have been a part of my life this year via TP I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing please continue to do so if that is not too much to ask. My sincere condolences, love Rose x
  14. Spamar

    Spamar Registered User

    Oct 5, 2013
    Good morning!
    A heartfelt thank you for all your condolences. It helps, it really helps. You wouldn't believe how much. It even had stepdau in tears, though we more do that at the drop of a hat. We went to clear his room, she put brylcreem in washbag, tears. I dropped his belt, tears. On the phone to one son, saying we had arranged for OHs pipe to go in his pocket, son broke down, wife had to take the phone. Unfortunately, he's on holiday, but coming home today. Though we all felt that he should be told before he came home!

    You will be pleased to know that I managed to have 6 hours unbroken sleep last night plus time in front of TV! Certainly don't feel at my brightest and best! Brain turned to mush, can't multitask!

    Today, into local town to sort some things, tomorrow, register death, Friday see minister!

    Thank you TP, for just being TP and doing one of the things TP does best.
  15. LYN T

    LYN T Registered User

    Aug 30, 2012
    Brixham Devon
    It's good to hear from you Spamar. Glad you had help with clearing your OH's room-a horrible task so it's no wonder there were tears. I'm glad you managed some sleep last night. We are all thinking of you

    Much love

    Lyn T XX
  16. Grannie G

    Grannie G Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 3, 2006
    Your post brings back recent memories Spamar. You are on auto pilot for the moment, doing what you need to do. It`s good to keep busy and it`s good to cry.
  17. Anniebell

    Anniebell Registered User

    Jan 31, 2015
    Thinking about you spamar sending you love Annie xxx
  18. chick1962

    chick1962 Registered User

    Apr 3, 2014
    near Folkestone
    Oh Spamar wishing you strength for the coming days . Lots of love xxxx

    Sent from my iPhone using Talking Point
  19. Cat27

    Cat27 Volunteer Moderator

    Feb 27, 2015
    Sending love & hugs xx
  20. 2jays

    2jays Registered User

    Jun 4, 2010
    West Midlands
    So long as you are managing to get some sleep, eat and have your choice of fluids that's good. Crying too.

    Squishy hugs to you Spamar and your family xxxxxxx

    Sent from my iPhone using Talking Point

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