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Discussion in 'After dementia — dealing with loss' started by Spamar, Jul 27, 2015.

  1. Spamar

    Spamar Registered User

    Oct 5, 2013
    6,853
    Suffolk
    I am sorry to say that OH died at 03:00 this morning, peacefully, in his care home.
    Obviously a very busy day for stepdau and myself!
    I would just like to thank every who has help me over the past few weeks, I couldn't have managed without you!!

    The funeral, hopefully, is Thursday August 6th.
     
  2. Sue J

    Sue J Registered User

    Dec 9, 2009
    8,042
    I am sorry for your loss Spamar but glad his passing was peaceful.
    Love
    Suexx
     
  3. Essie

    Essie Registered User

    Feb 11, 2015
    566
    Oh Spamar, my deepest, deepest condolences, at least his struggles are over. We are all here for you and my thoughts are with you, and stepdau, biggest hugs xxxx
     
  4. Kjn

    Kjn Registered User

    Jul 27, 2013
    5,835
    Oh Spamar I'm sorry xxx
     
  5. CeliaW

    CeliaW Registered User

    Jan 29, 2009
    5,653
    Hampshire
    So sorry Spamar, glad it was peaceful. Sending you a supportive hug xx
     
  6. Grannie G

    Grannie G Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 3, 2006
    68,731
    Kent
    My sincere condolences Spamar. What a shock.
     
  7. BeckyJan

    BeckyJan Registered User

    Nov 28, 2005
    18,972
    Derbyshire
    I am so sorry Spamar although glad to hear that your husband died peacefully. I hope you have loads of support from friends and family.

    It is a difficult time so take care. Thinking of you.
     
  8. Izzy

    Izzy Volunteer Moderator

    Aug 31, 2003
    58,771
    Female
    Dundee
    Oh Spamar, I'm so terribly sorry. I'm glad your husband's passing was peaceful. Sending my sincere condolences and thinking of you.
     
  9. chick1962

    chick1962 Registered User

    Apr 3, 2014
    11,265
    Female
    near Folkestone
    I am so so sorry Spamar thoughts are with you and your family xx


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  10. LYN T

    LYN T Registered User

    Aug 30, 2012
    6,967
    Brixham Devon
    My Dear Spamar, your dear Husband's struggle is over; he is now at peace. I hope you find some comfort that his confusion and pain has now gone. May you find peace yourself at this terribly sad time for you.

    Wishing you strength

    Love

    Lyn T XX
     
  11. Dazmum

    Dazmum Registered User

    I'm so sorry Spamar. Thinking of you and your family in the days to come xxx
     
  12. 2jays

    2jays Registered User

    Jun 4, 2010
    11,490
    West Midlands
    Oh my dear Spamar

    I understood things were not great health wise for him, but read with such sadness to hear he has passed away

    You may have been preparing yourself, expecting this, but when it actually happens, it's such a surreal shock.

    Holding you tight in my arms



    xxxxxxx






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  13. Canadian Joanne

    Canadian Joanne Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 8, 2005
    15,990
    Toronto, Canada
    I am so sorry Spamar. My condolences to you and stepdau.
     
  14. Margaret79

    Margaret79 Registered User

    Oh Spamar, what a shock.

    I'm so sorry to read this but glad that his passing was peaceful.

    Holding you in my heart and sending love & strength to help you through the next few days. xxx
     
  15. jaymor

    jaymor Volunteer Moderator

    Jul 14, 2006
    12,246
    Female
    England
    So sorry to here your sad news, condolences to you and your stepdaughter.
     
  16. Pickles53

    Pickles53 Registered User

    Feb 25, 2014
    2,482
    Radcliffe on Trent
    So very sorry to read this. I have followed your story for more than a year and know how lovingly you cared for your OH. My deepest sympathy and my hope for you to find peace and comfort.
     
  17. reedysue

    reedysue Registered User

    Nov 4, 2014
    4,563
    Scotland
    I am so sorry Spamar, my thoughts are with you
     
  18. Hibni

    Hibni Registered User

    Sep 16, 2013
    46
    Sorry about your loss. Please accept my condolences.
     
  19. Pollyanna

    Pollyanna Registered User

    Jul 8, 2008
    814
    I am also sorry to read this.

    Thinking of you

    X
     
  20. canary

    canary Registered User

    Feb 25, 2014
    9,397
    Female
    South coast
    Im so sorry to hear this.
    I have not been on here all that long, but your posts have been an inspiration.
     

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