After hearing nothing but loud angry shouting from my OH most of the day yesterday I was very annoyed to be told to just"go with the flow". The shouting was at the TV, the pet dog, the weather and of course me too. It seems as though nothing must disturb OH's routines, and if it does it sets him off in a foul temper. He even threw his reading glasses at me! Things don't flow in this house, they erupt. If only it was as simple as to "go with the flow". I try to avoid conflict but its driving me nuts.