Hi everyone
I’ve used a forum before, but I just don’t what to do.
My mum has dementia and my dad is with her every day at home. Mum has carers 4 times a day. Mums dementia is at the point where she can’t walk or talk and can’t do things for herself anymore.
The point is , dad has his favourite carers and one of them informed him she was getting married the next day. When I spoke to my dad he told me he gave her an envelope with £50 in.
he isn’t in a position financially to hand out £50 cash. I don’t want to the carerTo get into trouble but I’m not happy about this,
I truly appreciate what the carers do for my mum and often by them chocolates, wine or a small bunch of flowers to show thanks, but I’m not comfortable with this.
Please can you guys give me some advice or feedback , thank you everyone
I’ve used a forum before, but I just don’t what to do.
My mum has dementia and my dad is with her every day at home. Mum has carers 4 times a day. Mums dementia is at the point where she can’t walk or talk and can’t do things for herself anymore.
The point is , dad has his favourite carers and one of them informed him she was getting married the next day. When I spoke to my dad he told me he gave her an envelope with £50 in.
he isn’t in a position financially to hand out £50 cash. I don’t want to the carerTo get into trouble but I’m not happy about this,
I truly appreciate what the carers do for my mum and often by them chocolates, wine or a small bunch of flowers to show thanks, but I’m not comfortable with this.
Please can you guys give me some advice or feedback , thank you everyone