My mother is 85 years old and living in sheltered housing, she has short term memory problems which are getting worse, she is having trouble recognising people in photographs, forgetting or deliberatley not taken her medication ie hiding it or spitting the tablets into a tissue, not washing or bathing, putting on the same clothes day after day, not eating if not supervised and drinking a bottle of wine a day, which she some how manages to go to the local shop to buy every other day. is this Alzheimers/dementia. We have taken her to the doctors but when asked if she has problems she replies thats everythings fine she eats like a horse only has the occasional drink and can manage quite well, the doctor did a mini mental assesment and said to mum would she like to be referred to a specialist, she replied no she was fine !!!!! Help what can we do next !!!!!!