Wrap-up
When I started my buildup of checklist questions in this forum, I was trying to find ways to simply my duties for when the inevitable happened.
My sister has now, with 84 and 4-5 years of dementia, passed away in the company of trusted friends and without pain. My power of attorney has been rescinded, and all the paperwork apart from the Death Certificate, Will and Deeds have, in my case, been reduced to a 3 Sheet Excel spreadsheet based, on this
Probate Inventory Example which I modified for my purposes* and in the hands of the solicitors executing the will.
The 3 sheets (Probate Inventory, Probate Assets, Probate Liabilities) in the Inventory contain all the information and addresses that they need. The meeting took less than 30 minutes and I see that the "Tell us once" has been activated and various utilities and so are now billed to the solicitors. The solicitor to whom I sent the Excel sheets before the meeting has had to ask virtually no questions about the case. They said they had all the information they required.
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You will need to modify not just the US terminology, $ but also the Paper Print size to A4.
Whether I have made the executors' life easy and will still be charged a standard rate I do not know but it was a great relief for me.
But suddenly, there is a multiple emptiness, not just because of missing a sister, but also being relieved of the duties of caring for her. The pressure is off all around, but I do eventually still have her house to sell to complete the story. With this Inventory, you will also see more or less the value of the estate.
Summing up, I would highly recommend simplifying the assets and preparing something like the
Probate Inventory Example before the person passes away. It certainly helped me. Hope this helps someone else.