Thanks Lucille. I am just relieved that mum and sister are now in extra care sheltered housing, what with the move and MIL being admitted to hosp and today being moved to a NH, it has been manic but at least I know that they are not opening the door to all and sundry 'come in, who are you' etc. At least mum knows she is on the 1st floor, even if she can't find the flat. Just absolutely shattered have just got back from the hosp, no docs to speak to about MIL...... have tried all week and the ambulance has now picked her up to take her to a NH as she is medically stable. A nurse read the notes and said the neuro psych made no mention of medication, so it looks as if we will have to press the NH doc or her GP for a referrral to the memory clinic. I cannot believe that it was all arranged without consulting the family at 4pm yesterday and also that the ambulance took her off the ward whilst I was in the toilet at the hosp without waiting for me. BIL has followed in his car and sent me home as I was so cross but she will be in a real panic. I am just so tired of fighting the system all the time and now we have to try and get care set up for when she comes home.