It is in my nature to try to explain things to help but I know I'm doing it wrong, my auntie has vascular dementia and I got her an automatic pill dispenser, she doesn't want or need it as she takes her tablets properly... well she doesn't.. she says I don't trust her . Yesterday was a hard day with several heated conversations on her part. With hindsight I probably shouldn't have tried to reason or explain, hard though it is. I will try a different tactic today, if or when mentioned I'll say... we said we'd give it a few days and see if it works for you...help, is this the way forward x