Hi everyone, I bit of a self indulgent post but I am just really struggling and feel really useless at caring for my Mum. She was diagnosed Feb 22 with Alzheimer's but just lately she seems to be getting worse much more quickly.
Today she rang me In tears as she'd lost her handbag. She was inconsolable. I live in a different city so can't just pop to help look for it. She says my dad won't help too, which I'm not sure is true. All my compassionate compassionate goes out of the window when she's this upset, I just try to make her feel bet but end up saying all the wrong things.
I'm scared for the future, I'm sacred she won't be able to come to my wedding next summer. I'm exhausted from crying about it all the time.
I just miss her.
I guess I just wanted to know I'm not alone in being a bit rubbish at all this.
Today she rang me In tears as she'd lost her handbag. She was inconsolable. I live in a different city so can't just pop to help look for it. She says my dad won't help too, which I'm not sure is true. All my compassionate compassionate goes out of the window when she's this upset, I just try to make her feel bet but end up saying all the wrong things.
I'm scared for the future, I'm sacred she won't be able to come to my wedding next summer. I'm exhausted from crying about it all the time.
I just miss her.
I guess I just wanted to know I'm not alone in being a bit rubbish at all this.