Hi don’t think it’s advice I need, just need to vent. My mum was diagnosed with mixed dementia 6 years ago and around this time I had joint Power of Attorney with my eldest brother who helped with financial stuff until he found my mums Will which has excluded him and my other two brothers - leaving everything to myself and my two kids. It has only been me that has been close to my mum over the years and at the time when she wrote her will I did say what about the boys and her answer was they don’t bother, never see them, they never visit. I always felt awkward about it but thought that I’d deal with it once my mum had passed. However my brother decided to stop speaking to me and my mum. One other brother (I’ll call him bro 3) I found had stolen my mums bank card and withdrawn money, ordered things from Amazon and helped himself to whatever was in her purse! So now it’s me alone that is dealing with my mum for the last 5 years, at the beginning of this year I lost my stepfather after he was diagnosed with cancer, I cared for him at home for the four weeks between diagnosis and him passing. My mum was also in hospital with covid when he was diagnosed and hospitalised again 2 days after his death. It’s hard, I work, have four grandchildren. Bro 3 has now been sending me abusive texts saying I am not looking after my mum as I didn’t have a smoke alarm in her house (I have now) and that all I’m after is her money and now have all my stepfathers money (which I don’t). I have told him I don’t care they can have the lot my only concern is that my mum is looked after properly. I’m exhausted to be honest but feel very much alone and worry when she passes what abuse I’m going to get from my so called brothers.