Please help Mum has had dementia for 6 or so years only been diagnosed 1 and half years ago. Myself and and my sister have been looking after her for years. 24 hour care began about 5 months ago when mum stared being scared to be on her own at all day or night which became fairly demanding, we are the youngest 2 of a big family which isnt very close, we have young families ourselves, but us two along with the next brother up have always been around mum on a daily basis, the older siblings wud call a couple of times a year maybe. A lot of stress was taking hold as we weren't getting any help from the others, and the more we seemed to do for mum the less and less gratefull she became. She was hiding money all over the house and becoming streesed wen she couldnt remember, the amount of times we found wads of notes was unbelievable, she became so suspicious of everyone and wouldnt speak for days. She began blaming me and my sister for the older ones not calling, prob easier to believe that than they just didn't care enough. Mum became really horrible. 4 months into 24 hour care a grand daughter of mums called who never so much as asked how she was in 4 years spent a few hours with mum, we left them to it as we needed the break, of course mum criticises us the whole time to her telling her were dictating evertything to her and not looking after her, the grand daughter knowing nothing about dementia takes this all on board like its all fact and begins telling me how rubbish a job were doing, with the stress of looking after mum and juggling my own two young children along with work I just blew my top, I completely lost it and told her where to go in mums house . Mum turned on me and told me she didnt want to see us again as my sister was there too. There was a couple of rows after that and mum has left her home, our family home and gone to live with a sister who rarely called to mums and says she doesn't want to see us again and that she's giving up her home,we're soo hurt and at a loss, we cant understand whats happened. All we wanted was a fair share of help and now we're not even part of mums life, PLEASE HELP, sorry for being so long winded but i've still missed out lot of detail