I spoke to the sw in a email about hes teeth personal care he hasnt got bck to me and extremely hard to pin down and get hold of hes either out of the office or in meetings this is a problem i had a few weeks bck when i was trying to find out what was happening
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Ive spoke to the assistant manager yet again about hes teeth/ wardbrode being locked /trousers
She said she will look at the care plan they are apparently in the process of doing why didn’t they do it when he arrived i was told oh it will be six weeks .hopefully the troushers will turn up and tomorrow when i go in ill stick a note asking them not to lock the wardbrode
I will also bring yet more trousers ?i know they are fed up with me for polity bringing up issues but too bad
I will call admirel n tomorrow if i get time about the personal care and visit times
Before covid I visited my partner of 36 years for at least 4 hours every day and will do so again if visiting ever gets back to normal. If you think that your Dad needs you to visit more frequently then try to negotiate with the manager. It can be tricky when a person first goes into care to get the balance right but above everything else you need to be assured that your Dad is getting acceptable care.
i visted today i was sat out in the garden and the a manager came out and said time to go i was there for about 1.hour/40 min
There are strict about it .it’s difficult to keep a eye on the time when your with someone with dementia .my dad was upset when i came in and wanted to go out of there .had to calm him down and bring him out downstairs .feel like its a prison im going into