Hi I am new to this site, we are at in between stages with Father in law re memory issues. Dad is 83 and is due to go to memory clinic on Wednesday 11th this is his first appointment since his referral from the doctor. We are finding things very hard lately he is very argumentative sometime aggressive but what is most difficult is the fact that he is hardly eating! he will not accept meals on wheels, he is 15 miles away from us, we are the nearest relative, lives alone, we have bought prepared meals for him but upon visiting yesterday he hasn't eaten any of them, food is out of date and he seems to be living off toast! He will not change his clothes and has been wearing the same clothes for 2 weeks, we try and try and he either protests or say they were changed only the day before when they were not! any help/advice please. Bubby