I am sorry but i am really struggling can anyone offer any advice on what else i can do
hubby has dementia ---long story had to sell home --he could no longer work moved into flat above shop we had rented
Nothing had been done to it for years had loft extention to have a bedroom and shower -toilet -en suite
Unfortunatly builders miss led us when building regs were passed said we could carry on building planning would automaticaly follow it did not
I know it was my fault if i had my finger on the pulse but hubby was ill and i had a bussiness to run to support us ---
any way long cmplicated story Council put an enforcement order on loft to come down we fought it an appeal local news papers petions even Court of Human Rights MP all the people around us can not understand the problem and are more than supportive and say the extention is no problem
AT the end of the day the MP was not much help but he got council to give us 1 year to take loft down in stead of 3 months we said we were now on low income and could not afford to take it down He went back and said they will take it down and bill us a bit at a time
Well the year was up beginning Feb we were told legaly they might let it lie
But today we have recived a court summons in 2 weeks with a fine of up to 20.0000 for failure to take it down +the cost of putting it back to normal
I am at my whits end he wil not have a toilet up stairs no showere or bath and on advice over the time this has been going on i am told you do not need a shower or bath unless you have a server skin condtion
I do not want to fight any more slowly loosing the man i love is enough
I am not very good at dealing with it
I am so patient and calm for hubby sake but tonight Where do i go
hubby has dementia ---long story had to sell home --he could no longer work moved into flat above shop we had rented
Nothing had been done to it for years had loft extention to have a bedroom and shower -toilet -en suite
Unfortunatly builders miss led us when building regs were passed said we could carry on building planning would automaticaly follow it did not
I know it was my fault if i had my finger on the pulse but hubby was ill and i had a bussiness to run to support us ---
any way long cmplicated story Council put an enforcement order on loft to come down we fought it an appeal local news papers petions even Court of Human Rights MP all the people around us can not understand the problem and are more than supportive and say the extention is no problem
AT the end of the day the MP was not much help but he got council to give us 1 year to take loft down in stead of 3 months we said we were now on low income and could not afford to take it down He went back and said they will take it down and bill us a bit at a time
Well the year was up beginning Feb we were told legaly they might let it lie
But today we have recived a court summons in 2 weeks with a fine of up to 20.0000 for failure to take it down +the cost of putting it back to normal
I am at my whits end he wil not have a toilet up stairs no showere or bath and on advice over the time this has been going on i am told you do not need a shower or bath unless you have a server skin condtion
I do not want to fight any more slowly loosing the man i love is enough
I am not very good at dealing with it
I am so patient and calm for hubby sake but tonight Where do i go