My Dad has been in hospital for nearly three weeks (Hypoactive Delirium). He is medically fit for discharge and has been appointed a hospital social worker. In the lead up to him being admitted he was barely eating, drinking, and unable to stand let alone walk. He should have been admitted to hospital the previous week, but the family didn't listen....My Uncle says he needs to be able to walk. This has now changed to he needs to be able to stand.... My Dad hasn't walked for about a month now. The hospital physios have discharged him from their care as he wouldn't engage with them. Changing my Dad's nappies has always been a battle. My Cousin has hurt his back taking all of my Dad's weight so that my Uncle could change him. My Cousin will not be offering any further help in this way. His back has not recovered as yet. My Dad was admitted to hospital just under two years ago. My Uncle wanted nothing to do with Social Services and was adamant that he could take care of my Dad himself. We are now two years down the line and he is still saying the same thing! He's not going to allow carers in etc and they can all mind their own business! The hospital social worker will be speaking to my Dad on Tuesday. My Uncle was down as NOK, but luckily a nurse I spoke to must have made notes on the system as I will be contacted first. How do the social worker and discharge co-ordinator deal with this type of situation? Is the decision of where my Dad lives down to them or the family? What happens when my opinion is the total opposite of my Uncles, yet he lives with him? Any advice would be much appreciated. Many thanks, Gail.