Hello @vickylondon . A traumatic time for you all. Another one here joining the bandwagon of doing POA's ASAP. I am acutely aware that many PWD (Persons with dementia) are in denial regarding either diagnosis or prognosis. I am probably an exception as I have an early diagnosis, medical knowledge and still have insight. Having so many times witnessed relatives arguing beside someones bed as they lie dying, I can assure you that any stress you anticipate about approaching your beloved father now - is nothing compared to what can happen without a POA in place. A POA is something your parents NEED rather than want. A profound difference.
Your father WILL be struggling and as other have said, may not accept his diagnosis. That is a big part of this damned disease. I wish you and your family well. I am unsure if you have contacted your local carers association yet, my husband who has no medical or social background found them invaluable and their advice and support enabled him to make contact with other groups and help. Here is a link to make it easier for you
Your father WILL be struggling and as other have said, may not accept his diagnosis. That is a big part of this damned disease. I wish you and your family well. I am unsure if you have contacted your local carers association yet, my husband who has no medical or social background found them invaluable and their advice and support enabled him to make contact with other groups and help. Here is a link to make it easier for you
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