Thank you for letting us know how you are doing. It's good to hear that you are remaining positive and I am also sending you a pat on the back. Take care and good luck for the future.
your daughters trying to be supportive. how are you feeling after chemo? it seems that you went almost straight into that not long after you lost bridget. ive got an idea that you will feel guilty whenever you decide to go any where. could you go somewhere you didnt go with bridget just for an afternoon perhaps to build new memories as well as having the older memories?My daughter ( among others) is suggesting that I go on holiday as an adventure ( on my own, a singles holiday) to get out there again, have fun, it’ll be exciting she says, something different.
But being happy away from home and so soon after Bridget dying would seem to me a betrayal even though I was on my own for four years with her in the care home never knowing me as Peter her husband. We travelled always together. To go away and not share I think I would feel awkward and I’d feel a little guilty.
Why is it that adjusting to a single life is so difficult and full of regrets, times of grief and guilt. I guess I might feel differently next year, who knows?
Just feel so attached to her memory and the life we had which, in the normal days, was full of hope and promise.
Hi @jennifer1967 thanks for replying and understanding. When things were at their worse in hospital i hardly gave Bridget a thought because i felt so ill.your daughters trying to be supportive. how are you feeling after chemo? it seems that you went almost straight into that not long after you lost bridget. ive got an idea that you will feel guilty whenever you decide to go any where. could you go somewhere you didnt go with bridget just for an afternoon perhaps to build new memories as well as having the older memories?