Peter, I do feel that you are constantly trying to work out what she is thinking and feeling, but honestly, her perception of what is happening will not be the same as yours.
One thing, for example, is that people with more advanced dementia are not aware of time passing. Time becomes like a series of moments, none of which have any connections with any of the others. They live more and more in the eternal Now, with no concept of past or future.
My OH is already getting like that. He always want things done now and when I asked him if it couldnt wait and why did it always have to be done right then, he was confused and said "what other time is there? There is only now" - a very profound observation. The concept of waiting is meaningless to him as it requires an understanding of time passing, and he no longer has this understanding.
You cannot think about what it would be like for Bridget by trying to imagine what it would be like for you because Bridget does not experience it the same way, so please do not distress yourself with imagining.
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One thing, for example, is that people with more advanced dementia are not aware of time passing. Time becomes like a series of moments, none of which have any connections with any of the others. They live more and more in the eternal Now, with no concept of past or future.
My OH is already getting like that. He always want things done now and when I asked him if it couldnt wait and why did it always have to be done right then, he was confused and said "what other time is there? There is only now" - a very profound observation. The concept of waiting is meaningless to him as it requires an understanding of time passing, and he no longer has this understanding.
You cannot think about what it would be like for Bridget by trying to imagine what it would be like for you because Bridget does not experience it the same way, so please do not distress yourself with imagining.
xx