May I intrude for a moment to agree with
@Wifenotcarer. A TIA is often referred to as a mini stroke and seems to have much in common the maxi version such as I have had. I was given to believe that at least one of the causes, if not the principal one, was the stress of Margaret's death and I think that was fair comment. Also while I was in hospital I had dose of pneumonia brought on by a malfunction in my swallow mechanism and like
@Wifenotcarer's late husband
have been having having fairly intense therapy from the local SALT team. So it really is important,
@Dutchman that you take care both not to cause Bridget stress and to make sure as far as you can that you make her meal times as peaceful as possible because if one tiny particle of food "goes down the wrong way" it can wreak havoc when it gets into the lungs. To be fair to you, I would never have believed it if I hadn't experienced it. May I, very tentatively, suggest that just being with Bridget might be enough to reassure her. You don't need to talk. She knows you love her. Just being there is enough. Try and go every day even if for a short time (I don't think dementia patients have much idea of time anyway). You may find, like me, that one day later on you might look back on those days as a sort of golden age. I certainly do. Please free to tell me , in the immortal words of the former Education Secretary, to "shut up and go away" if I'm out of order. Just bear in mind that, like so many others here, I feel for you as only one who has been through it all can feel, God bless.