I hope I can shed a bit of light on this . The correct terminology is DNACPR which is do not attempt cardio pulmonary resuscitation . It does not mean , do not treat . I have had many discussions with patients who think their loved ones won't receive any treatment and may be left suffering . Even with an end of life pathway we still symptom manage e.g. pain relief etc . Using Correct resuscitation measures is not brutal but is unpleasant for all concerned so I wanted to inform people , in case using the word brutal may make them make a decision based on that . At the same time , I recognise and sympathise with the people who would use that word to describe their experience, but I wanted also to make all aware that professionals are trained in delivering this care swiftly and correctly , limiting damage to the individual . As for the DNACPR order staying in place , in hospital this should be reviewed frequently and removed if necessary. If a persons health improves then it can be completely revoked . That's why it is advised that if you wish this order to be maintained then it should be discussed with medical staff . Remember , the family can have an opinion and state their case but where possible the patient is always consulted first and foremost . That's why it is a good idea to discuss these matters with all the family and all are in agreement. Where possible apply for combined Power of attorney for health and finances . I hope this has helped a bit to explain what is a very emotionally charged experience , and one which no one wants to be faced with when looking after our loved ones , who have to rely on us making the 'right' decision, whatever that may be . My very best wishes to anyone facing this dilemma . Lou