I’m so sorry that you don’t have the support you require & deserve from your OH family; dementia is a cruel disease- but it sounds like the relationship between father & sons was broken long before you married.
sending ((((((((hugs))))))))) you’ve been through the mill, one way & another
take care
ps
My beetle is 16 years old & I love driving her, Betty; nothing wrong with having a few miles on the clock! x
Thank you. Fortunately, my children are great and my husband loves, admires and respects them.