Hi
@Dave63 and
@Palerider. I've been following both of your appeal journeys with interest and trepidation. I've been battling with the ICB who have been dealing with mum's CHC (or lack of) for over 2 years. Their handling of it has been a catalogue of mistakes, incompetence and downright dishonesty from the start. None of the horrors which
@Dave63 is currently experiencing surprises me in the least.
For me, whilst all of this has been going on, my dad became very ill, was in hospital for 8 weeks before being admitted to the same care home as mum. Of course, yet another CHC debacle ensued for dad but after only 7 weeks in the care home, he passed away so it was not worth pursuing a CHC appeal.
Having to fight our relatives corner for CHC is an extremely stressful experience for anyone to deal with, but what sometimes gets overlooked is all of the other 'stuff' we are having to cope with at the same time. The latest low ball to be thrown in my direction came 2 days ago when mum's care home announced that it's closing down, and we have been given notice to move her.
I have the Local Resolution Meeting for mum next Tuesday (I have legal representation). Like
@Palerider, I'm not naturally inclined to be assertive, but it's a characteristic I've had to fine tune in recent times, along with tenacity and resilience. However, I'm not expecting a positive outcome at this first stage.
Thank you both for posting your experiences on this forum. You have been a wealth of knowledge and have kept me going.
@Dave63 the finishing line is in sight and you will get there.