Hello @SETBest wishes for the 16th.
Dad's CHC was denied but I will be appealing. He's deteriorating, not eating/drinking well, weight decreasing and now on three Ensure per day, seems that's keeping him going. He's had a chest infection so been on antibiotics for 7 days so added more meds to have covertly as he refuses to take anything. Loads of other problems and don't feel the CHC people adequately considered the complexity/interrelated issues around these problems.
Awful to say this but I'm starting to wonder whether giving him more drugs for infections, and all his other ailments including his severe heart failure for that matter, is in his best interests as he's said he wants to kill himself on three occasions recently. Maybe time to speak with the GP who can then advise the nursing staff under his statement of intent I presume.
Got nowhere as you'd predicted with the local MP but I will keep going with this.
Please keep us up to date, I was nervous going into my meeting of seven of us but soon got into my stride and took copious notes. You're more practised and know the procedures so great you have kept going.
Its tiring isn't it? The harder you try the harder it gets on this one. MP's aren't interested because its not a vote winner. I just got an email from my local MP telling me facts I already know - he didn't answer my question about social care and funding, and believe it or not we are both members of the same poltical party
I think I would use some objective judgement rather than what your father is telling you in terms of whether he should be for further treatment beyond that of what is at a level he already recieves. I would certainly talk to his GP about your concerns around his general health and deterioration. Sadly the term 'heart failure' is bounded around so much these days that people forget what that means, and it does have a terminal phase despite medication. The only fix for heart failure if it is not transient is a heart transplant and that is not on the cards for someone like your dad. It is reasonable to treat infections, the question is should that treament become more aggressive than the accepted standard of care in such circumstances -certainly ask to speak to his GP and gather their thoughts on ceiling of care, and hospital admission and the futility of CPR.
Once this saga is over I will post what I have learned from it to help anyone in the same situation -it may be some time yet, but I will do it
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