I wonder if a man wouldn't derive more benefit from a male carer, I don't mean this in a sexist way but isn't it different for a man to have a "matey" relationship with a woman than a man. Men talk to other men randomly probably as much as women do; stood in the shop/pub waiting to be served, waiting for a bus, in a social situation basically anywhere where you get thrown together (possibly this is a northern thing).
Would I get my wife a male carer? No reason why not, but I feel she'd probably bond better or be more at easy with a woman.
As I say I don't want to sound sexist, I'm sure professional carers are very good and appreciate that it's mainly women doing the job, I just think that if I hired a carer for my wife I'd get a woman and that if I ever needed a carer I might prefer it to be a man rather than a woman half my age. How many of you ladies would want a strange man half your age showering you? (there are one or two names on here spring to mind but I won't say who they are)
K
Would I get my wife a male carer? No reason why not, but I feel she'd probably bond better or be more at easy with a woman.
As I say I don't want to sound sexist, I'm sure professional carers are very good and appreciate that it's mainly women doing the job, I just think that if I hired a carer for my wife I'd get a woman and that if I ever needed a carer I might prefer it to be a man rather than a woman half my age. How many of you ladies would want a strange man half your age showering you? (there are one or two names on here spring to mind but I won't say who they are)
K