A day of new things for me, as I haven't started a thread before.
I'm feeling very pset and tearful and I think it's because we have got a carer coming in to get Nick up and do all the things I usually do. Part of me feels this is a bit premature because I can still manage, and to be honest I can be pretty sure he will just sleep all day but it's so I can go out and know there is someone coming to make sure he is okay. He isn't particularly keen on the idea but is so good tempered I know he will go along with it. I know I am very very fortunate that this is the case.
It's kind of hard to explain my feelings and I know people are struggling with much greater transitions.
I feel perhaps it is better to get something established now while he still has quite good understanding (although patchy) rather than wait until he would find it more confusing.
I'm feeling very pset and tearful and I think it's because we have got a carer coming in to get Nick up and do all the things I usually do. Part of me feels this is a bit premature because I can still manage, and to be honest I can be pretty sure he will just sleep all day but it's so I can go out and know there is someone coming to make sure he is okay. He isn't particularly keen on the idea but is so good tempered I know he will go along with it. I know I am very very fortunate that this is the case.
It's kind of hard to explain my feelings and I know people are struggling with much greater transitions.
I feel perhaps it is better to get something established now while he still has quite good understanding (although patchy) rather than wait until he would find it more confusing.