My mum has vascular dementia, she has been in a care home since December 2012. My sister and I visit her every day as it is quite close to our homes, two miles away(one of the major reasons for picking this home!)
My mum has never allowed the care staff to care for her, she only allows my sister and I to wash her and deal with all her personal care. She will take tablets from the care staff but if they need to take bloods or any other tests either me or my sister have to be present to calm her down. She can be quite aggressive to every one else but me and my sister, hence she is now on medication for the aggression, it hasn't really worked! Brief scenario over:
We have had a phone call from her SW this afternoon saying that the care home feel that they can no longer care for her. The SW says she feels that mum now has to be placed in an EMI unit with nursing care, we know this will just make mum more aggressive. The only home available about six miles away, is not one we would even consider placing her in! Question is how far away can they place her from us we don't want to restrict our being able to visit her too much! She is currently funded by LA and means tested so pays most of her pension towards her care.
Sorry for this being a bit long winded but any advice greatly appreciated.
My mum has never allowed the care staff to care for her, she only allows my sister and I to wash her and deal with all her personal care. She will take tablets from the care staff but if they need to take bloods or any other tests either me or my sister have to be present to calm her down. She can be quite aggressive to every one else but me and my sister, hence she is now on medication for the aggression, it hasn't really worked! Brief scenario over:
We have had a phone call from her SW this afternoon saying that the care home feel that they can no longer care for her. The SW says she feels that mum now has to be placed in an EMI unit with nursing care, we know this will just make mum more aggressive. The only home available about six miles away, is not one we would even consider placing her in! Question is how far away can they place her from us we don't want to restrict our being able to visit her too much! She is currently funded by LA and means tested so pays most of her pension towards her care.
Sorry for this being a bit long winded but any advice greatly appreciated.