I finally got my Dad to go and look at a nursing home which was recommended as being very good. My Mum is still in hospital at the moment but he has now put her name down on the waiting list. What impressed him more than anything and which I thought was pretty good too, was the fact that they have movement sensors on the ceiling above the beds where an alarm will sound if Mum tries to get up. It is also only 15 minutes or so on the bus away from Dad so he can go anytime he likes. I've also decided I'm going to the Care Commission about the previous home she was in when Dad was in hospital, if only to save the same thing happening to someone else. Thanks once again for listening.