Mum lives in sheltered accommodation and has vascular dementia. She has severe bouts of confusion often ringing me to find our where my step father is. He passed away last year. It is almost like the last six months since he passed away dont exist. She went round the building where she lives earlier this evening looking for him and the other residents told her to ring me. It is very distressing for her when I tell her that he has passed away. Just so hard day after day to keep having to tell her