I imagine I would be prosecuted for assault. If anything happens to me and I needed hospitalisation, then he would have to be hospitalised too - in the acute hospital - while they waited for the funds to be released and a bed found in a nursing home. When my mum was in hospital having her hip replaced in February, there was an old woman in the unit with her, obviously with dementia, who had been admitted for an operation on her shoulder six months previously. She wasn't able to live on her own anymore, all her children said none of them could have her with them (farmers - one of them actually lived on the same property, just across the yard apparently), and they were still waiting for things to be sorted out, and a suitable place in a nursing home relatively near them to be found. Meanwhile, they just refused to take her from the hospital. It obviously wasn't hurrying things up any - she was just moved around the hospital from ward to ward wherever there was a bed available. Sadly, then there are people who have their surgery cancelled because there are no beds available in the hospital.
I wonder how many people are actually driven to the edge of despair and lash out while waiting though? I bet this isn't uncommon.
Wow that must put terrible pressure on the hospitals and pointlessly too. Sounds like they will have a crisis on their hands before too long
This has really opened my eyes.
I agree with Scarlett, your health is suffering now and you can't carry on like that. As you say, in a care home there would be two people to lift your husband and they would probably rotate to protect their own backs.
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