Hi all - so I posted a few weeks ago that my Father was getting in house care, and my concerns about finding the right person. Sadly, over the last 2 weeks he has became progressively aggressive. My Mother was his carer, but it ended up with all the children staying in the house after a particular incident, as we were concerned for my Mum's safety, In hindsight he should have been sectioned then, but we were so scared for what that could do to him. We then made arrangements for him to go into a care home. It went from bad to worse, where he has really hurt a poor 90 year old woman, and the care home staff were also threatened, and he has been sectioned under the section 2 mental heath act. He's been there for almost a week, and whenever the medication wears off, he's very violent to the point where he's having to be injected to medicate him, and it's taking 3 or more staff to restrain him.
It's heartbreaking in that my Dad was the kindest man, and so, so loving. I knew things were going to get hard at the later stages but I had no idea this could happen. I feel like I've lost him, that amazing kind and caring father I've known all my life doesn't seem to be there any more. I don't recognise this person.
Has anyone had this experience of someone being like this? I've read it's quite rare - he has dementia with Lewy Bodies.
It's heartbreaking in that my Dad was the kindest man, and so, so loving. I knew things were going to get hard at the later stages but I had no idea this could happen. I feel like I've lost him, that amazing kind and caring father I've known all my life doesn't seem to be there any more. I don't recognise this person.
Has anyone had this experience of someone being like this? I've read it's quite rare - he has dementia with Lewy Bodies.