I have been absent for a while, my OH in a Nursing Home just round the corner,(he is almost 69) and he knows it, so we have been battling with his wanting to come home, why am I here, etc etc. somewhat "settled" "but not" if you know what I mean. He is on our minds from the minute we wake up until we go to sleep He is about to go to Hospital for an overnight stay, oral enema, ct scan, then stay the night afterwards. This is our last chance of getting this done as he is not particularly compliant at times. I plan to stay with him night and day until this is done as he can become troublesome in hospital, it is the only way we have a chance of getting this done. Has anyone had a similar experience please, I guess I should phone the hospital to inform them of my intentions.